Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Living With My Aging Parents
When watching the talk shows to discuss the issue of aging parents, it is usually on hospital costs, doctor's appointments and juggling personal time that your parents can no longer fly, on parent-child role reversal. The one issue I hear about is never addressed in daily life, with aging parents and juggling all the different personalities in the country. Older people have very strong, self-willed mind of her own, but at least my parents.
For example, my husbandand I have a special sense of decoration, which we prefer. Micro fleece dark green sofas, large professor, such as chairs, a beautiful cherry wood dining table, and old paintings of the Renaissance, all very antique-like style.
Mom has a different taste altogether, and no father. Mom's attitude, depression, inspired, of course, is to use and reuse everything. She refuses to take towels, no matter how tenuous. She loves washcloths, even if they start in their own cornerthe shower, full of the funky smell of mildew. It is only with Dial soap, no one else. You only have a shower once a week (whether it is necessary or not) and dad uses his pocket knife to cut everything out of his nose hair, flower cuttings, and homemade bread I just baked. I always make sure the bread before I eat out, so Dad's ptomaine knife in the disk first blow, the contact with anything edible.
I realize my parents to communicate, I find myselfbite my tongue when Mama Papa is waiting for the hands and feet. He sits on his big caboose watched his Fox News Channel show, is doing his puzzles, read the newspaper, and pontificating on everything wrong (in the world if they would do it his way!). She has spoiled him, and she knows it. Now that they are retired, Mom tells me she wants she had not done anything for him. She complained to me about his impotence (eeewww!) Transfer much more information than I could ever want or need to know.To his luck, on the one hand, when he knocked out on a political role, she tells him to keep his face fluttering quietly. But on the other hand, this is usually so in front of our eight year old daughter. Boy, they need therapy one day ... If I do, I think, now.
I came home one day and discovered my mother had laid a floral pattern tablecloth on the table, along with contrasting orange stripes and brown placemats. At first I thought she was joking around, until I saw thechildlike joy in his eyes. She was so proud of their purchase of the JC Penny trendy Urban Collection. (Come to find out later that it was not the amount they wanted to ... She had chosen the wrong letter next to the picture in the catalog because they do not believe in prescription frames and I was too embarrassed to answer the call Penny's Call Center and you send it. "Besides," she said, "I have trouble understanding, she on the phone. I think they have a lot of Indians andPakistanis living in Chicago. ") I did not know how I was able to in the dining room every day and my beautiful cherry-wood table covered with a dress to go see Ugly Betty's.
My parents came to live with us about nine years ago. At the time, all of their grandchildren, young adults, and during their working years they are not as much time as would have liked to enjoy the ten grandchildren. After they retired, they were thrilled to learn that I was expecting a little bitSurprise. We invite you to come and live with us, and they did. Little Alex arrived, and my parents are mad at them for eight years.
Mom and Dad owned a flower shop and nursery for more than quarter of a century, and were disappointed that none of us children, or a grandson, a little care about the business. We all had our own dreams and goals, and other than hope for a small financial success on the road, none of our dreams of participating in something green. And thenAlex was born with a big green thumb, and soon her grandpa was the best bud, and she, his. When gardening, grandpa would also teach us some choice words that we speak rather not.
Grandma gives Alex all their empty bottles of perfume, is not entirely empty, just enough to spray on the rest of her stuffed animals. Alex's room smells like a space that, like we say, best suited for its red velvet curtains, purple and pink silk sheets, pillows Sultan. When Alex asks Grandpa, ifher plants are dead in her room, he waddles, and throws a glance. "They're good," he explains. "Pull out of it." So she continues to keep all the fifteen dead plants in her window seat, because Grandpa knows best.
My parents both have hearts of gold and would do anything for us, here is a perfect example. My husband and I enjoy taking care financially for my parents so that they can use their money for themselves. Once, when we were on a bank card magnetic strips, which are no longerWork, we have determined that we need to go to the bank and replace them. Papa is hard of hearing and thought we were, with money worries. He opened his wallet (I have never seen that many moths fly out from one place!) And creaked as the column leather wallet, he gave us five dollar bill. What a guy! (For fairness sake, he thinks, a liter of milk and two loaves of bread can be had for a dollar, and that two U.S. dollars a JD Rockefeller-sized tip on a $ 30 restaurant tab.)
Mother insists onproviding all meals. It is actually angry with me if I even try to wash a dish. My mother recently had cataract surgery and said she can see quite well, thank you very much, but when she washes and dries the dishes, you can read Braille, the stuck-on food she missed by mistake. She does not know that late at night after they went to bed, I wash the dishes again.
My parents have got slower, more relaxed, and even bought a brand new car, something they have neverDone together throughout their fifty nine years, although none of them drives. My husband and I had to hide his laughter when they wanted a new black car ... with spinning chrome hubcaps. My mother insisted. She did not know that it shows for young people and car, were determined. For her, she hit the high society, and "they are simply beautiful."
My siblings call from time to time to ask how everything goes. But they do not really know the truth. You wantto live their lives and talk with Mom and Dad, but do not want to hear about the doctor appointments and such. You know that I will be me for mom and dad. And it makes me not at all. My parents took care of me all my life and I'm sure I had a few quirks and still do not, but she loved me and supported me, who I was, and I'll do the same. I would not live anywhere.
I remember as a child watching The Lawrence Welk show with them every week. I still hearPolka music from her room. Actually, I can still hear.
Polka music is blaring from her bedroom. It is much too loud, but in contrast to our teenagers, their music to sound (I use the term loosely) on the grounds of the rebellion, in which case it does not hear because my father is good. I open the door to their greenhouse gas hot bedroom and my daughter to jump to Begin the Beguine on Grandma and Grandpa in bed when she an old Lawrence Welk re-watch them. Dad sits in his rocking chair,Dance with only his feet, gasping as Mom dances right along with only their arms and cute little fingers. "Mom, look, on television," said Alex shouts with as much joy as seventh-graders, the just caught a glimpse of Justin Timberlake. "It's a sissy-and-a Bobby! You are a dancer!"
I grab my father with his small, fragile arms and pull him towards me. "Shall We Dance?" He smiles and says: "I was hoping you'd ask me to open up Baby Girl. My dance card!" We also do a bit of turn andlaugh. And at that moment, nothing else matters. Not the cloth, not the crusty dishes that smells funny or amusing opinions. Nothing is, except that I'm dancing with the first man in this world, I was never, as his faithful and loving wife looks on, and while the little girl who currently stopped jumping on the big bed, and who will carry on his memory, making a remembrance of her own. This is what life is like life with my parents.
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
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Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Get the Best Gas Mileage - Convert Your Car To Run On Water
Have you ever thought that gas prices are too high?
Have you ever dreamed of a magic formula that could help you to increase your gas mileage?
There is a way to get better gas mileage - perhaps it is not "magic", but it is a tried and tested way to do it. You can Convert your car to run on water, save some money and save the planet.
Scientists proved that our cars are not optimized engines to fuel consumption, as they should be. Only 20% of the gas from the engine actually uses theremaining 80% will cease to be wasted and pollution as unburned gas.
Imagine paying 5 times less per liter of gasoline! This would be possible if the 100% would burn gas. Nothing is certain for 100% and there is not no way to burn 100 percent of the gas. On the other hand, it is possible for the fuel consumption significantly, by increasing a few simple minor changes to your engine.
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Monday, December 7, 2009
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Saturday, December 5, 2009
Policy and rhetoric - a strategy for negating criticism
I am fascinated by the struggle between the Fox News Channel and the Obama administration. But this article is not about politics, about the right or wrong, or even about how each side is the interpretation of the actions of others. I will leave political analysis to political experts. I am an expert in communication, so this article is about communication strategies.
Presidential adviser David Axelrod caught my attention Sunday when he said that Fox News should be treatedas a news organization. With this statement, he attacked the credibility of Fox with the Obama administration to criticize, and that makes me stop and think right. His words reminded me of a familiar rhetorical strategy: counter criticism with condescension. Where was I ever seen?
As communication specialists, especially in the area of written communication, I have to write a library for books. The answer, I knew it would, and it was. The writing guidelines bang! Writing with Impact Statesto emphasize this: "attack the credibility of your critics, the superiority of your ideas."
The three key words here are "attack", "credibility" and "critics". With this strategy, you claim that their critics do not have a valid source of information, so their ideas are not worth considering. This is, in fact, what David Axelrod said on Fox. According to Axelrod, Fox News is a news organization, so it does not make any criticism worth considering.
ThisStrategy has two effects. The most obvious consequence is that they can negate the effects of criticism. If I will be able to damage the credibility of my critics, then others probably think less of what they say about me. I Reduce the impact on my critics, by people who believe that my critics say do not know what they are. Bang! Writing with Impact has a good example.
The press corps is to say, we do not know how to handle corporate finance fond. They went into journalismSchool. We have advanced degrees in financial management. You are not in a position to tell us how companies deal with finances.
The second effect is more subtle, but perhaps more. This strategy allows the person who criticizes the question of whether avoiding the critics right. When I apply this strategy, I change the topic from the original issue price of my actions () to) a new (your credibility.
Suppose you are the critic, and I am the person you criticize.If I use this strategy is that the argument is no longer on the accuracy of your criticism. It is no longer a question for which you criticize me. The argument now is whether or can not be believed.
If I am successful with this strategy, and change the subject, I no longer have to defend my actions. Instead, you now have to defend your credibility. By using this strategy, I have slipped past your criticism and put on the defense.
Attack on the credibilityTheir critics is a powerful communication strategy for counterattack. However, as so many rhetorical strategies, their strength is also its weakness. When seen what it is a rhetorical strategy to avoid or negate further criticism, it is easy to use against the person himself. Here is a simple example shows how to:
Critic: You have done something wrong.
Person criticized: You do not have the credibility to criticize me.
Critic: You try to avoid this problem byAttack on my credibility. We can discuss that at a later date. In the meantime, please discuss this issue and respond to the accusation that you are doing something wrong.
See what the critics at the end? The critic pointed out that the person is deliberately trying to avoid the problem. He revealed the strategy. The listener or reader will wonder why the person wanted to avoid criticism. Perhaps the critics are right, they think. The person who criticizes seems absurd thatthe moral authority of the critics and improve added value to its criticism.
If not, the critics can respond to the question of credibility, he can also keep it light, while critical of the person on the topic. For example, the critic might reply follows: "This is not a question of credibility, but my question here, what you have done. If you think that my accusation is wrong, tell me why." This approach is weaker than the previous one, since it allows the listeners / readers the opportunity toWhen in doubt, for the critic.
The last point that Bang makes writing with impact on this rhetorical strategy is good. "It could help you win an argument, but it will not win any friends. This strategy, however, also raises ethical considerations, so use it cautiously, if at all."
Friday, December 4, 2009
Andrew Napolitano at FFF Conference, Part 4 of 4
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Gold and Rate Cuts - What Goes Around Comes Around
The rock-and-the-hard-place issue is resolved ... the Fed needs to cut prices and, if possible, it looks even more interesting for gold. In the last four years, the precious metal massive prospered under higher interest rates-to the surprise of many an analyst. But now that prices are heading south, what's in store for gold and the dollar?
And could an amazing sequence with an interest rate boomerang?
Why the Fed Caved
To be fair, theFed in a real place. No question. Raise prices and you can temporarily catch the free-falling dollar ... But slide the housing right off the cliff. Lower prices and help you to a number of banks and people who do not would probably have something to do with mortgages in the first place ... but you wave bye-bye to the dollar had. Perception is always greater than the reality, but it is understandable, and the American people the perception that the maintenance of their home is much morecritical issue as the solution of some complicated dollar problem. This should not come as any great surprise. The major shaper of American perceptions, the media has not told the public about the dangers of the collapsing dollar.
The worst-case scenario has in fact painted by the media - and continue to paint - is that a wimpy U.S. dollars simply means travel abroad will now be much more expensive. Big deal. Stack that against homeowners lose their homes, and the whole thing is a U.S.not in any case. "So the Fed gave himself up to public pressure.
But definitely, the impact of the collapsing of dollars are far greater concern than a higher hotel bill in Paris. And ironically, the consequences could be a further steep rise in interest rates to start.
Follow the Yellow Brick Road
Right Back Higher Rates
It is as if we are all suddenly stuck in the whacky world of Oz. Follow this disquieting argument (as shown analyst MartinWeiss, editor of Money and Markets):
One / When the Fed made its dramatic cut in interest rates, it signals the world that (the dollar was miserable enough, wanted) already near record lows not supported by the U.S. in the foreseeable future will be. So the trickle of the dollar has been sold more quickly, such as dumping dollars ... and if dollars are dumped landfill, so are U.S. bonds.
Two / Sure enough government bonds fell by more than two points in the days after the rate cut, the worstDecline since September 2003. Since bond yields just as fast in the opposite direction, they have here is booming recently. But of course, the great difficulties, that ...
Three / ... long-term mortgage rates followed long-term Treasury yields! Yikes. That is, if the dumping persists dollars, it will likely increase in prime mortgage interest rates in the board of sub-prime.
"According to textbook theory," Weiss said: "This was not actually happen! But it ishappens. Why are Treasury yields rise (and their prices fall sharply), even while the Fed is cutting interest rates? Quite simply: It is mainly because the key factor we are hammering away day after day, week after week, the U.S. Dollar. "
The big question is, will the dumping dollars on? Ominously enough, was the demand for U.S. bonds below a whopping 80% in just one months. Where it goes from here is something that we all have to wait and see. But if it does continue, interest ratescould, in fact ... and boomerang boomerang with a vengeance. But in the end it is not too much difference to gold.
Lower interest rates? Higher interest rates?
Gold is likely to north Either Way
Unlike paper investments, is the fate of precious metals no longer be permanently bound with interest, and if they are traveling.
Today it is more a question of trust.
Foreign nations are dumping dollars, because, as the irresponsibleTeenagers with his first credit card is the U.S. shelves a terrible guilt. We are a disgrace to the largest debtor nation in the world. And because the currency is the biggest debtor nation in the world also happens to be the world's reserve currency, the world is rapidly losing confidence.
Finally, the world holds more than 7 trillion U.S. dollars right now. And every time the dollar set a record low against the euro and other currencies, what happens now with disturbing frequencylately, the value of 7 trillion U.S. dollars, which is eroded.
That is why people are hedging their dollar with gold ... and why you should do the same. Julian Phillips, goldforecaster.com wrote: "Gold has broken out of all restrictions and is now a whole new game after Fed Chairman Ben Benanke let the interest rates charged to the value of the dollar internationally. National interests will always override any of those international share. Only confidence in the U.S. economy, the banks and theSpending power of consumers, the confidence in the dollar gold price and turn restore. Will this happen? "
Gold is your insurance if it does not. "
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Mr. & Mrs. Potato Heads unnetted Are You? Time for your ears, eyes and mouth Get Plugged In
Are you a Potato Head, still waiting for you ears, eyes and mouth? Are you "unnetted?" They have no voice in the process of Glboalization and Free Trade in the flat world? Tune into ABC, CNN, MSNBC and FOX and they are in your eyes, ears and mouth for your plug. Liberals turn to the left and sing all the politically correct nonsense sentences they give you. Conservatives turn right and follow the man who says Jesus is his favorite philosopher, as he charges up a hill in bloodyPre-emptive wars from his safe place in Washington DC.
Everyone should read The World is Flat by Thomas Friedman of The New York Times. It is really about President Clinton and President Bush go hand in hand down the global economic road together.
Stay away from The Confessions of an Economic Hit Man by John Perkins book, Amy Goodman of Democracy Now Org and Seymour Hersh of the New Yorker. They will only confuse you. Do not read the many books on globalizationby Manuel Castells and The Trap by Sir James Goldsmith.
It may be time to curse the darkness, and not just light a small light. Token charitable purposes, where only one of thousands helping to conceal themselves deep economic wounds. The Free Enterprise System is to facilitate, for all to be good. Evidently, his mission has failed. We live off the suffering of the wage slaves of the world.
As the saying goes in the old movie Cool Hand Luke - what do we because it is the failure tocommunicate well connected in our global world, with instant text messages and all. It seems we talk, and more than ever, but it lacks anything to write about. Could it be the pursuit of perfection has been flushed down the toilet? Do we have called into question, because we say, perfection is just a word in the dictionary with a definition that can not be applied to humans. But the word is there, and it concerns us, how we live and breathe the boundaries of the institutions that are crumbling with every tick of the clock. AllWe all want to meet at a place to feel at the same time to find, but they may lose only rare moments in time, as we in the eternity.
In the workplace, we are told it is a good thing to try, our ultimate goal, what is right and what is wrong game, but we also said we must be realistic as we would in the real world. Pragmatism is the rule. Utility is their tool. In the Globalist Free Traders World, returns to the Bible, the phrase itself. He says to do, others fromthey do it for you. We see economic power politics marry perfecting greed. The homeless lay on downtown streets and are ignored. The sun beats down on them in the summer and the cold winds of winter, freeze them, but it does not matter, for their souls are burned or frozen already a society that flits by too busy with the real world of things. Quote the statistics they give you say, do not exist even the homeless and the underclass in our good economy. However,Things like Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans is a silent depression, residing in our country. Many say it is their fault, they ended up the way they did.
It is not just the workers on pay or without pay, suffer. Reported that 47 percent of all small businesses have maxed out their credit cards to people to keep their business afloat. They fall into a trap of usury interest rates above 18 percent and up to 34 percent as all those who use their credit lines back to theirof jobs lost, etc., there is no return after this happened.
They would have put ABC, NBC, CNN and Fox News. Finally, there are good men and Cavuto on Fox, which shows us things like the stock market is the soul of a good society, where everyone can turn paper into profits by doing the least among us, the "dirty" work. People like Thomas Friedman of The New York Times writes a book with the title of the flat world and speaks at Harvard. People like the president of the JesuitUniversity say amen and more workers are tied discarded in the world with the key. Bishops in Central and South America are martyrs because they speak and act for the underclass. One of the first saints canonized by Pope Benedict, Father Alberto Hurtado who spoke and acted for the underclass in the 1940s and 1950s. Today's populism is quickly coming upon us from South America.
People like John Perkins will not go forward, and write a different kind of book called The Confessionsof an Economic Hit Man, that really care about all the bad things going on in the global economic field and says, but he is from the major media channels silenced. The academic community ignores him.
President Bush says there are jobs in the U.S. that the Americans will not do. This happened after the United States more than 4,000 factories in Mexico. It is clear there are jobs in Mexico that Mexican workers will not take. Many of these companies are now moving to China, where there are willing to workfor less money. It is an endless stream of movement, because millions are competing for the same jobs. Free trade is about the shift of production from location on the cheapest labor markets of the world in space. The main raw materials are the people to set a world trading block to compete with each other to the level of wage slave and even child labor.
The facts of life include the following:
In 1774, 1 percent owned 15 percent of the assets. Until 1973, 1 percent owned 32.6 percentof wealth and until 1989 owned by 1 percent 40 percent of the assets. What is it today? (Looking for Silent Depression Economic Inequality for more details)
At the age of 65 years: 45 percent of dependent relatives. 30 percent are dependent on charity. 23 percent work more and only 2 percent are self-sustaining. A notice in our church bulletin reads - Success is the Social Security age to reach, without bankruptcy. We now know that approximately 38 percent, over the age of 45 filesBankruptcy of 1992 to 2002.
85 percent over 65 years not even $ 250.00
About 28 percent of all workers making less than $ 7.90 per hour
The lowest 20 percent bracket to pay state and local taxes on about twice as fast as the top 1 percent. 70 percent of all workers pay more in payroll taxes than income tax. A person who is only about 10,000 U.S. dollars a year pays about 12 percent of the total gross income in payroll, state and local taxes. That is more than one$ 1000 per year to just U.S. $ 10,000 in income.
About 70% of all workers earning less money in real dollars than comparable workers 20 years ago.
The poor will get poorer and the middle class is fading.
For more information see whether this would be a good economy, I hate to see a bad one at Tapsearch Com Tapart news. The facts were updated in 1998 and most of the data remains even today.
There was a time in Rome, where it was better to free a slave as a Man.The slaves had a roof over their heads and were allowed to marry, to raise more slaves. The Free-Man had to hide and only very few options make a living. The story seems to repeat itself now with a working poor class is growing in the U.S. and poor and wage-slave class is growing outside the U.S.. The World Bank and other lenders to cover victims of usurious interest rates.
A statistical prosperity be explained, although 39 percent of all over 45Bankruptcy has declared between 1992 and 2002. Finally, only about 38 percent of all workers in the United States to qualify for unemployment insurance, which is to point out is a large pool of workers missing in action from any kind of real reporting. It also demonstrates has produced the unemployment rate and it can certainly not be compared with an unemployment rate reported in the past.
Who says we have to compete as a global economic area?
Relationship Advice - How to Deal with the challenge of the woman earns more money than the husband
A recent feature on Fox News told us about the growing tendency of young newly married couples to be for the woman to make more money than the husband.
My first thought was: "And how is this a problem, and for whom?"
Obviously it is a big problem for some.
Wisdom from Darren Stevens
Are you familiar with the old '60s TV sitcom Bewitched "with Elizabeth Montgomery? It is becoming now and then was on Nick at Nite and one fromFilm a few years ago.
If you are not familiar with the plot, here it is - Darren and Samantha Stevens are a typical 1960s couple, with Darren as the bread-winning architect husband and Samantha, the beautiful housewife. The only wrinkle is that Samantha seized this unique capability has wiggle her nose and make anything happen and / or appear out of thin air and Darren tried to her to stop bringing their skills and "normal."
Do you have the last line? Here is a man, a woman hasthat everything they always wanted, and he tried to stop her might!
Do not be a Darren Stevens!
Even as a little kid in the 60s I thought Darren Stevens was a complete idiot!
So my suggestion on how the situation when the woman makes more money than the man is easy to deal with it --
celebrate and enjoy it!
If you are a man and are caused by the fact that your wife makes more money than you overcome intimidated about it! Get your ownEgo out of the way and celebrate the gifts for your wife and your wife the gift.
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